Sexy Hair Style Medium Holding Gel Not So Hard Up 5.1 Ounce Discover Style Sexy Hair Not So Hard Up Medium Holding Gel, the softer but still ultra-shiny version of the best-selling Hard Up Gel. Much like the Hard Up Gel & Slept In Creme styling cocktail - voted Sexy Hair's # 1 loved cocktail by the education team for years - Not So Hard Up Gel is the perfect ratio of all-day hold and flexibility.